Are you in your 20s or 30s, reflecting on how you could make a real difference in the world? Then, fostering children is a brilliant way to do just that.
Every year, 36,000 children move into care, but the number of foster families available to care for them is decreasing. These children have often experienced the unimaginable and need the stability of a loving home and family to care for them.
From the initial requirements to foster and why you could be the ideal foster parent, to frequently asked questions about fostering when you’re a bit younger, join us as we explore fostering in your 20s and 30s.
Can you foster children in your 20s and 30s?
Yes, if you have the passion for helping the most vulnerable children and young people in the UK, you can foster in your 20s and 30s. There are just a few initial requirements:
- You must be 21 or over.
- You must have a spare bedroom
- You must be legally able to work in the UK.
You don’t need to have raised or be raising your own family, nor do you need any specific experience, because when you foster with FCA, you’ll receive extensive training, a generous foster carer allowance, and support throughout your fostering journey.
Read on to discover why, as a younger person, you could be the ideal foster parent.
Why younger people make great foster parents
Becoming a foster parent when you’re younger has lots of benefits for both you and the children you foster. Here are our top five.
No preconceived parenting ideas
Although fostering and parenting are similar in lots of ways, they are also quite different in others.
Many children and young people in care have had difficult pasts, which means they are often living with trauma. This impacts their entire well-being, from their ability to regulate and communicate their emotions to the way they behave and build connections with others.
These children need trauma-informed care to help them recover from their experiences and begin building a brighter future.
When foster parents have had children of their own who have grown up and fled the nest, it can be more challenging for them to relearn trauma-informed methods because they’ve become so used to applying more traditional parenting approaches.
However, if you haven’t had children of your own yet, or they are still fairly young, it’s unlikely that you’ll have any preconceived parenting ideas, making it easier to adapt to the needs of children and young people in your care.
Less of a generational gap
When you foster in your 20s and 30s, the age difference between you and the children you foster is less significant than the average age of a foster parent, which is 54.
You’ll likely be more familiar with technology, current slang, mental health issues, and other challenges children and young people face today. This can make it easier for young people in your care to relate to you about the problems they might be facing during their teenage years.
As a result, this could help you build a strong bond with the children you foster, as you’ll be more prepared to support them in navigating the ups and downs of life.
More energy to fulfil your role
The roles and responsibilities of foster carers mean you need lots of energy, an eagerness to learn, and a willingness to adapt to the changing needs of children in your care.
From school drop-offs, meetings, and appointments to family time arrangements, days out, and more, foster parent life, although rewarding, can also be demanding.
Being a young foster parent often means you’ll have more energy and patience to manage your ever-changing schedule without burning out, making your home more stable for children and young people.
Breaking down stereotypes and role modelling
Many people believe that you need to have years of life experience to be a good foster parent. Although it can be helpful if you’ve raised your own children or worked in a similar profession, it’s not necessary, and these misconceptions can prevent younger people from even considering fostering as an option.
But if you decide to take this step and open your home to the children and young people who need it most, you’ll break down stereotypes and encourage others to do the same.
You’ll also show your foster children how to manage young adulthood, inspiring them to follow their dreams and build healthy futures.
You can change more lives
Although there is no foster care age limit, if you begin your fostering journey later in life, there is a possibility it could be cut short by health concerns, as they are more likely to occur as you get older.
But when you begin your fostering journey in your 20s or 30s, you have more time to make a difference.
Whether you foster a child long-term, seeing them through to adulthood and beyond, or provide emergency fostering or respite care and welcome multiple children into your home, you’ll have years in front of you to transform young lives.
FAQs about fostering in your 20s and 30s
We recognise that becoming a foster parent is a life-changing decision, so we’ve selected the most common questions we’re asked here at FCA about fostering from younger people to help you make an informed decision.
Can you earn a living as a foster carer?
One of the most pressing questions we’re asked by those considering fostering in their 20s and 30s is, How much do you get paid to foster?
Although we know money isn’t the primary motivation to become a foster parent, it’s understandable that you’d want to make sure that you’ll feel financially secure on your fostering journey.
The good news is that when you foster with FCA, you’ll receive a generous fostering allowance per child, per year, which is typically tax-free. You’ll also benefit from additional perks, such as bonus payments, length-of-service rewards, and discounts on our foster parent rewards platform.
Can you foster as a single person?
Absolutely, many of our foster parents choose to foster as a single person. However, during the application process, we’ll need to make sure that you have support from friends and family to make your journey more manageable.
You’ll also receive support from our incredible community, including social workers, education co-ordinators, therapists, experienced foster parents and more, so you’ll never feel like you’re doing it alone.
From support groups and meet-ups to events like the Big Sing Off, you’ll feel welcomed and ready to see where your journey takes you.
Can you foster if you rent your home?
Yes, you don’t need to own your own home to foster. However, you will need permission from your landlord, and you must have a spare bedroom for a child to make their own.
You can also move house while fostering, but if you plan to do so within a few months of approval, we will ask you to apply to foster once you’ve settled in.
Is there room for progression?
At FCA, we’re committed to your personal and professional development. That’s why when you foster with us, you’ll receive ongoing training that will not only prepare you for each stage of your fostering journey, but also broaden your knowledge and skills so you can provide more specialist foster care, such as disability fostering.
Can you work while fostering?
Yes, you can work alongside fostering; however, it depends on the hours you work, the flexibility of your employer, the age of the children you foster, and whether you foster as a couple or on your own.
Our priority is the well-being of children in your care, and you’ll need to be available for school drop-offs and holidays, meetings, appointments, training, and all other responsibilities that come with fostering a child.
Ready to start a meaningful career?
If you’re ready to start a meaningful career in fostering and would like to learn more, get in touch today.
Call us on 0800 023 4561 or submit an enquiry form. Our friendly team are ready to answer your questions and help you get started on your fostering journey.
